Love is
something that drives the world. The love of earth with the sun, the love of
moon with the earth, the love of me with you and you with that of the other,
love is seen anytime, anywhere, every time, every where. It is indeed bravura,
the flair with an artistic touch shared between two souls that are special to
each other. Every relationship in life starts with the crush, an impressive
hello or what ever. And it finally builds up that unseen bond between the two
souls, a bond that demands the feeling of completeness, a bond that gifts the
feeling of cherished incubations, a sense of affirmations and a lot more.
Why are we not
ready to accept the fact that every relationship has that sharing bond of love
that may be derived of passion and interest or a common wound shared or any
little thing which is equivalent to both! Every kin is a lover for that matter
and unless they are playing it right royally fast and loose, a concept of
Physical attraction or the sexual arousal does not come in. The cultural
constraints make us deny our craving for them, keeping the cravings carved deep
in the logs of your secret orchid, where you tend to walk alone just with the
imagination or the memories of the contemporary past. And every single damn
feeling of each others roam happily in the living room and even the prayer
halls but falls short of the bedroom doors.
Stamp me as an
iconoclast – never mind, but let me tell you, every emotion need to be vented
out. Your emotions about the other, the pain that the soul feels in the absence
of your beloved ones, the jump your heart dances in their proximity, the want
of giving a tight hug, the urge of planting a passionate kiss on the fore head,
the push for looking into the eyes telling or yelling, I just love you, every small thing counts. For, the love is
divine and does not have any gender discrimination to it to be erotic! The
contemporary nonsense has brought something called the physical entity or the
physical desire that stokes the fire between the genders, into picture. The
bizarre fact is that “I love is you” is a statement and every one do expect an
answer in return to a STATEMENT. Let me not talk about the erotic love, an
affair that involves the electric impulse of the male and the female, stoking
the fires and soothing their senses. However, a true romance, an erotic & a
non platonic affair starts only at that point where the sensual fire lights up
and more of your hormones gush pulling your gamete out of its place.
But, let me tell
you all, you would not always run into people who remain in your heart and give
you a flitting across life – feel, like that of a butterfly nectaring the
flower! To some love is a verschlimmbesserung, because they feel they do not
get it reciprocated. Some argue, in love I shall not expect any reciprocation
but to whom should I look out for reciprocations other than my beloved? You
need to get on the ball to understand what love is. It is more a feel than the
fact of understanding. Some tell love can not be confined to one and you need
to express it rather than thinking it to be a tea pot in the tempest.
Just share love
that is unconditional. Do not constrain your feeling for the other. Mean what
you say, Yes, I mean what you can not mean, When you say I love you; make sure
you are not disappointing your beloved ones by any action of yours. The cutest
part in love is, your beloved will accept you as you are but you must know to
change yourself for your beloved one. Love is something that balances the life.
It is more of an emotional feeling that should be unconditional without any
constrains. Just Love, Love and Love only! Because, it is Love that makes Life
Beautiful! J
PS: Love, in all most all the
context above, refers to a Platonic Love! J
